A Tale of Child Estrangement

Likely you are reading this because you are possibly experiencing it. I’m not sure who would research the subject otherwise. In fact, I certainly did not know of this situation before experiencing it. It might be something you think occurs in extremely dysfunctional families, those other people…until it h happens to you. Child estrangement, sometimesContinue reading “A Tale of Child Estrangement”

Home

I met with my accountant recently and she was speaking about the importance of preserving my home and never leveraging the equity. She described it as the little nest for my kids and I. I liked that description. Home came up again in a morning yoga class my daughter and I attended. The instructor describedContinue reading “Home”

On Unaccompanied Minor Travel

Typically my family travels together so this has never arisen for us previously. But this summer I learned everything I needed to know about minors traveling as unaccompanied minors. I wanted to share in case it can help anyone else unfamiliar with this term and what it means in the travel context. Here is theContinue reading “On Unaccompanied Minor Travel”

On Mental Health Part II: Firearms and Suicide

Warning to readers: This article addresses a very serious and disturbing cultural trend. In our last article, Part I, we addressed mental health generally with encouragement and (hopefully)helpful ideas. Now we will address a specific area of mental health which is suicide prevention. This is a bit of a misnomer and I generally prefer theContinue reading “On Mental Health Part II: Firearms and Suicide”

The Absolute Horror of Coparenting with a Narcissist

The challenge of co-parenting is multiplied with a narcissist involved.

My Request for Help and a Response That Will Blow Your Mind

I want to add some more context to try to support others going through this. Today I want to share some email from a “flying monkey” which is a colloquial term for those who support the narcissist despite their devious deeds. Let me lay the groundwork in case you have not read previous or earlierContinue reading “My Request for Help and a Response That Will Blow Your Mind”

On Betrayal: Navigating the Unimaginable with your “Coparent”

My young daughter was so sick for 36 hours, in bed with fever. I feared maybe she even had measles which is said to be going around. I texted her father (we have been divorced almost 8 years now and he lives less than a mile away) about her condition and that she had missedContinue reading “On Betrayal: Navigating the Unimaginable with your “Coparent””

Real Stories: Parenting with a Narcissistic Ex

This is a real life example of what it can look like when a narcissist gains equal parenting time. He will demand equal parenting time even though he has never before taken the children to the doctor (and probably doesn’t even know who the doctor is), dealt with the schools or made them their dailyContinue reading “Real Stories: Parenting with a Narcissistic Ex”

Navigating Teen Years with Compassion

I read a lot of books about how to be a parent before I had my first baby and when my babies were little. How to sleep train, how to potty train, later how to homeschool. I love to seek out knowledge as I pursue the paths in my life. But what I found wasContinue reading “Navigating Teen Years with Compassion”

On Holidays

Exploring how to navigate holidays when life changes in the wake of divorce and death