I want to add some more context to try to support others going through this. Today I want to share some email from a “flying monkey” which is a colloquial term for those who support the narcissist despite their devious deeds. Let me lay the groundwork in case you have not read previous or earlierContinue reading “My Request for Help and a Response That Will Blow Your Mind”
Category Archives: Being Single
On Betrayal: Navigating the Unimaginable with your “Coparent”
My young daughter was so sick for 36 hours, in bed with fever. I feared maybe she even had measles which is said to be going around. I texted her father (we have been divorced almost 8 years now and he lives less than a mile away) about her condition and that she had missedContinue reading “On Betrayal: Navigating the Unimaginable with your “Coparent””
How I Spent My Perfect Winter Solstice
It is not often I have a completely unscheduled day that is completely open to opportunity but I was blessed to have such a one today. And how appropriate for it to occur on Winter Solstice. Here is how I chose to spend it. I took my time waking up between 7:00-7:30. Along with completingContinue reading “How I Spent My Perfect Winter Solstice”
On Holidays
Exploring how to navigate holidays when life changes in the wake of divorce and death
Holidays Bring up Memories
Reflecting on past holiday memories after losing family members. 🍂
On Dating and Prostitution
It seems that since brothels have closed and prostitution become generally illegal in most parts, this has had the effect of pushing these men who would frequent these into the general dating pool and now they expect all women to behave in this manner, all while presenting themselves as in search of a long termContinue reading “On Dating and Prostitution”
Timeshare Part II 🏖️🗺️🏨
I wrote some time ago about what our timeshare (vacation points at Holiday Inn) has meant to my family. Would I do it again? Probably not. But my family loves it so I’m still happy I did. Maybe that doesn’t make sense to anyone but me. We are up here again this weekend for aContinue reading “Timeshare Part II 🏖️🗺️🏨”
Notes From Real Life 