This is a real life example of what it can look like when a narcissist gains equal parenting time.
He will demand equal parenting time even though he has never before taken the children to the doctor (and probably doesn’t even know who the doctor is), dealt with the schools or made them their daily meals.
He will quickly move in with a girlfriend because he does not have a house. The children will become second class citizens to the girlfriend’s children. The girlfriend’s children will have their own bedrooms. Your children will share. The girlfriend’s children will wear designer clothes and have their own cars. Yours will be told not to sit on the couch and eat the food in the house.
Your ex narcissist will co-coach a soccer team with the girlfriend’s son. Your son will ask the dad if he can co-coach with him and the dad will tell him no.
The narcissist will be too busy “working” to attend important events of the children’s including concerts and sporting events. However, he will find plenty of time to travel with the girlfriend.
Even though he is “working” anytime an important event occurs he will tell you he never has money to support the children’s activities. He will refuse to financially support the sports or other activities they are passionate about. However, he will show up when convenient for him as the proud soccer dad.
Notes From Real Life 