The narcissist will invade your privacy every chance you get. I remember the one I knew would walk right into the bathroom while I had been in there with the door closed. I might be washing my face for bed or dressing or some such thing. Things that you would like to have a little sacred space for.
He would walk right into my home office in the middle of the work day and begin clanging about while I conducted calls. He would claim that its “his house too.”
More egregiously he searched my drawers, questioned me about seemingly innocent items, made them into evidence of unfaithfulness, announcing to my little children that “mommy was a bad person” and was “with another man”.
He read my diary, confronting me about its fantasy contents. I burned it, all of them, kept since I was 7 years old, because I felt so violated.
He searched my phone records and called my clients, a total violation of privacy, mine and theirs, and potential ethical violation.
And on and on.
Maybe you have experienced similar.
There are no boundaries physical or otherwise to them. They rejoice in violating yours as a means of control.
Notes From Real Life 