Community and Grace

I love this resource as well as Attorney Rebecca Zung’s YouTube videos on the same subject.

Here Renee talks about a narcissist’s constant state of unhappiness and the victim’s attempts to arrange their life to please him or her. I myself agreed to sell my dream house and move to another state where I could not work in my chosen profession (as a lawyer, regulated and licensed state by state in the US) where I would later pay over $3500 and spend 6 months studying to obtain a new business license, just to try to make mine happy. And guess what? He still wasn’t! Surprised? If you’re loving it you shouldn’t be. Bet it sounds familiar. I later left him and now I am happier in that new state! Give it a listen. Educate yourself. If it resonates, think about changes you might want to work towards. If not, great – you don’t have this issue! Pass it on to someone who might.